Hey ladybugs 🐞

I’d just be blocking and ignoring the both of them and carrying on with your life. This is such unnecessary drama to even be responding to especially as a mum.

I know but my baby father is helping with our daughter it’s just this stupid ass bitch

so you’re saying he helps but in the messages you’re saying he does nothing to help?

The problem isn’t even her it’s your daughters father allowing someone to speak to his daughters mum like this. Take it up with him. Not her. Ignore her bullshit she’s unnecessary

i know that message is from last year but me an this hoe been going back-and-forth since the ending of last year he just started helping literally

if you go back in the message, you will literally see that I said he gave me 500

why do you even respond to her? Why don’t you just ignore her?

I do do that but I’m not about to let a hoe think twice to talk to me crazy or to even tell me that my kids can’t talk to they dad’s 🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️!! I know I should ignore it but it’s like every time I do. She just blow up my phone with stupid shit 💩

So block her so she has zero access to you. Trust me it’ll help your mind state better too and she might actually fuck off if she can’t get to you

try that she text me off of different numbers and all of that I have so many numbers blocked from her. It’s crazy.

Report her for harrassment

My mind is blown when I come across these posts on here - do people actually speak to each other like this? It’s absolute comedy gold 😂😂😂

I know huh you see what I said to this girl 💀😂😂😂!!!

I would’ve blocked her after her very first msg to me like yesteryear lol. You have her saved as “BD gf” though. I don’t think someone would want to change their own number multiple times just to msg you. And if she does keep blocking her, block her a million times if you have to. She’d learn to stop. I have NO time for that crap. There would be NO back and forth to someone like that from me.

Two things that really bother me:
One - why would you get into a relationship with someone who has children when you are so insecure that you are jealous of it?
Two - why would you get into a relationship with someone who was so insecure that they didnt want you to have a relationship with your own children?
Your child should come first and this is some unhinged behaviour.

As hard as it is to not respond to her, I would say listen I have no reason to communicate with you and continue co-parenting with your ex. I would let your ex know that your daughter is unsafe in her presence because of how shes interacting about her towards you.. and perhaps say we’ll go courts

she been blocked she just keeps texting me from a different number 💯💯💯💯💯👀

I see what your saying but me an my daughter dad is co parenting with each other it just this bitch who just feels like she has to say something about everything 🫷🏽🫷🏽🫷🏽🫷🏽💀!!! This girl got mad because my daughter dad gave me 500 for his daughter 🗣️🗣️!!!

but you are responding - I would have just blocked her and focused my energy and time on something else 😂😂

I would go mad too tbh but thats what she wants ! She wants to get under your skin and you to go away because she is so insecure!
Reality, she needs to go away and your daughter’s dad needs to realise it is his daughter or her because the way she is acting will impact your daughter and how she feels about herself!!

I see that now like he can be happy an be in a relationship with someone else but keep your whoever in control when it’s come to us caring for our daughter 🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌💯🗣️!!!!

exactly you both can be in healthy relationships which are positive influences on your daughter!
The issue with his current girlfriend is that she isn’t that and it’s not fair on your daughter at all. He needs to think about what he wants life to look like and all this drama constantly is just not the way to live life! Its not good for your daughter

Hopefully he realises that but if he doesn’t, I would limit contact with him to protect her

Block her. Your BD is the problem. She’s just irrelevant noise.

Why go back and forth with her tho? Just ignore her. And if your child's father won't protect her then he doesn't need to be around her

I honestly wouldn't even bother replying to this female, she's not worth the time... I would how ever speak to your baby daddy and inform him that this is going on incase he isn't aware as he may also be unhappy about these messages and put her straight? But if not atleast he will know about them and with you not replying to her she will soon get bored.
Aslong as you and baby daddy are looking after your daughter and keep that good co parenting relationship that's what's important, don't let this insecure woman effect it for the sake of you and your daughter x

Wtf is wrong with her 😂😂she sounds 6 with a snotty nose. Cant spell, she shouldn’t be fucking nobody.

Drama drama

She doesn’t even know the difference between “know” and “no” 😫 immediately no.

even though he helps with our daughter he give me money. He do everything a parent is supposed to do, but I have not let him see his daughter in two years just a simple fact of people like his current girlfriend Like I told him if you want your daughter, you wanna see your daughter keep your bitch in line when it comes to us coparenting because your bitch disrespecting me shows me what kind of person you are and I don’t want that around my daughter sorry not sorry

😂😂 that one

Girl just take his money and ignore her! I wouldn’t waste my energy on a person who can’t even spell a word that has TWO letters lmao.

do you think I don’t know that this is my life I live in it 💀😂😂!!!

I do that but when the bitch go over there by my daughter’s dad and I’m texting my daughter’s dad about our daughter this bitch always get his phone and start jumping stupid at me and of course I’m not about to let no bitch talk to me stupid simple

yeah i totally understand, but your bd is the one letting her disrespect you. He’s gotta put her in her place and let her know that you’re the mother oh his child. She just seems like an ignorant person.

Why are you even talking to him if you won't let him see the child he supports? How old is your daughter? And how are you having all these kids? Like did you just have triplets last year or something???

I wouldn't even entertain her with a response... not worth the time.

have you read the 2nd screenshot? She’s not keep him from their child .

it’s really hard to get him to put a Bitch and check when it comes to me because he don’t give a fuck when it comes to me, but one thing he don’t play about is his daughter I could tell you that

because this is my life and this is my choice and this is what me and him talked about just a simple fact of he’s on probation, he don’t want his daughter around that understand that he don’t wanna deal with CPS because he’s on probation so yeah, any more questions

Now he don't play about his daughter lol no girl he clearly does wtf. This has to be fake lmao. Because he hasn't seen this child in 2 years. Like let's just ruminate on that

me and him done talked about it. He said as long as I’m giving you money and buying her stuff whenever you’re ready for me to meet my daughter that’s on your time and your day he met his daughter Buku times though

With me in the house, of course

Some of the stuff you ladies put up with is wild, I can't even read through all this is sounds stressful

OK who the fuck are you to tell me anything about My Kids and what the fuck I’ve been through in my life you’re not my sister you’re not my cousin you’re not my mother. You’re not my grandmother. You’re none of my baby daddy’s people so please shut the fuck up when talking to me because me I will most definitely prove you wrong and have you ever heard of having a baby early having sex and then getting pregnant again yeah that’s what happened. I had my twins then did grown-up stuff towards the end of December. I found out that I was pregnant again boom 🤯

girl you literally need help because I spoke nothing on your kids and I don't care to. Look at the mess in your life? Get it together. You have 4 kids and no time for this bs. Like you actually don't even make sense like lmao

broooo I promise you lol idc that much. You have bigger things to focus on

actual makes zero sense soooo contradictory

What a dimb little bird. She’ll find out soon she ain’t special

nah its both of them. The black msg is a bird

Calling other women names. Or bitch etc. no matter the situation shows you’re no better. Beginning to look like you her and your bd are all a problem and probably thrive off this shit show chaotic circus. Stop looking for validation here from other women you’re ‘right’ when you’ve got babies that need you healthy and relaxed at home. This internal anger is what puts women in early graves I swear to god. And who walks away stress free? The men!
Block. Delete. Bye.

The way you are telling the story is a bit disorganized and confusing. I encourage you to really sit down with yourself and reflect on the type of woman and mother you want to be for your children. Remember that your daughter(s) will follow your lead and learn from your actions. If you have the means to, I highly recommend seeking some therapy or meeting with a life coach. It will be important for your peace to decide what boundaries you will place on your daughter's father and be sure that it is safe and fair to all involved. I would invite you to be less concerned about the woman and more concerned with how you will co-parent with someone who's threatened to kidnap your daughter. To me, that's where your focus should be at this point. I'm going to be straight with you, it is not clear what you are looking for with this post and based on your responses it sounds like you are easily triggered. Deep down inside, there is a woman that deserves peace and clarity and I hope you learn to honor her.