I just ask my little girl to bend over and wipe that way. She's also trying to wipe herself after wees using toilet roll when on the toilet, not always that successful 😂 but gets her used to giving it a go
I have a boy and I do the same for poops, I tell him to bend over and touch his toes 😁
For poos i tell my little girl to touch her toes so i can wipe x
I get my daughter to wipe herself for wee’s so she is learning and then do check and dry any missed bits by asking her to squat a little, which gives enough space. For poo’s I just ask her to squat straight away and wipe her that way My daughter wouldn’t lay down on the mat anymore as she is a big girl now (her words 😂)
I wipe her standing up, she just bends forward a little bit for me. She wipes herself but i have to make sure she’s done it properly with poos 🙈
I have a boy so wees are just a little pat! But poos I get him to bend over forwards so I can wipe properly. I can remember my mum doing that with me so it came naturally 😂