420 Friendly

I always wonder if it means they are cool with smoking around their kids, for some people I know it does mean that.

Right, that’s why I’m trying to understand. I personally don’t want to hangout with people that will smoke around me or my kids.

i don’t know any 420 friendly people that are okay with smoking in front of kids or people who don’t smoke/aren’t comfortable with it

unfortunately I have known people like that

Same incognito. Lots of people vape their weed pens regularly around their kids. I’ve seen women on here with smoking, sitting next to their child as their profile picture. With 🍃 next to their name.

mine means pre kids I smoked, I don’t anymore, largely due to pregnancies and breastfeeding etc. plus not ever wanting to smoke around kids! I guess I put it to show I’m not anti smokers? Obviously is case by case and not around kids etc x

this is why I don’t understand how anyone is actually “meeting” or forming actual connections with anyone on these online apps cuz it’s impossible to actually know some1 genuinely jus by looking at their profile & judging them based on that. I personally put 4/20 friendly cuz I smoke & it’s a huge part of my life cuz I enjoy it very much. Bt idk 🤷🏾‍♀️ abt other ppl & I don’t want to assume or disregard some1 as a potential friend jus because they are not 4/20 friendly. Bt it’s important that I put it on my profile so that ppl know that I smoke. 😇

would you then get offended if someone didn’t want to be friends with you because of it? I personally don’t want to be friends with people who consider smoking or drinking to be a big part of their life. I also don’t want to be around someone that smells like smoke. Partially because of allergies. I have also personally found that I do not have much in common with those that do smoke.

I've been looking on Miss Google and the urban dictionary says it's people who smoke cannabis 🧐 not sure how true that is though.

a lot of smokers seem to make it their whole personality.

sounds like you’ve been around shitty people then! personally i use thc medicinally and recreationally, the only way it would impact a friendship is if someone didn’t want to be friends with someone who uses weed. i don’t think id want to make friends with someone who is judgmental about it tbh! just because there are moms that smoke it doesn’t mean its their whole life or personality. i know thats not the case for me anyways. you’d never know i smoke unless i told you

OP no I wouldn’t get offended if someone didn’t want to be my friend cuz I smoke.
Cuz I guess we have different lifestyles & I respect that. What I don’t understand is when some1 initially judges me just because I smoke or they befriend me knowing I smoke bt then they judge me. Ppl are multi dimensional, just because I smoke doesn’t mean it’s all I do or who I am. I wish ppl would get to know each other on a deeper level to know my character instead of just judging me off what my profile says or my pictures. Even with these comments, & posts and online interactions; I just hope ppl aren’t reading too much into these paragraphs we write online cuz we are all so much more than this. It’s impossible to know or assume my personality or character jus because I disclosed that I smoke in my profile

Mine says it because I have my medical card, and previously did smoke. Also because I don’t have a problem with others who do. I feel like it’s judgy to just write people off because they have smoked. But hey, it’s their choice just like it’s mine to do it 🤷🏼‍♀️ no big deal. It’s not like it is/was my personality. Most people don’t even realize I have/would. &Very much feel what has said.

For me, I have smoked in the past. I don't anymore, but I don't mind those that do, and nor am I against it. However, smoking around the kids is a no-go unless they use it for medical purposes in vape or tincture form and responsibly.

I mean it in both ways. We treat it like we would alcohol. I never smoke in front of them but if I’m going to smoke (which is only when my husband is home) and they ask where I’m going I will tell them but, just like with alcohol, I’m not going to get so intoxicated that they would notice a difference. I wouldn’t be okay with someone who makes it their whole personality just like some “wine moms”. I may have a different opinion if I lived in a state where it’s illegal though.

reminder to US moms fag is British slang for a cigarette not a gay slur