Lovebombing
Have you ever fell for the lovebombing?? I feel so stupid right now. How could i fall for someone that did everything so right in the beginning but changed when he got what he wanted. He is very controlling and doesn’t allow me to do anything. From the way I dress to who I talk to. Now I feel stuck because he moved out here from another State but I don’t want to be with him anymore.
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You are not stupid!! People change. And it’s so easy to miss the red flags. But you can not stay in a relationship just because he moved from another state, that was his decision. This type of behaviour could get even worse and you need to keep yourself safe!
I got love bombed then ended up pregnant 3 weeks later 😵💫
And that’s what I don’t want to happen. I hate that I got myself in this situation.
So you aren’t pregnant yet ? Girl RUN OMGGG ! I can’t lie I’ve considered abortion 30 times not that im proud of it but just thinking of the long term effects on my mental health (i have BPD) The control they crave is insane ! I thought I found the man I was gonna marry , in the flip of a coin it was a total nightmare !! I’m 27 weeks in and I’ve been robbed of a beautiful experience , I can only assume what coparenting is gonna be like lmao a fucking joke . I wouldn’t change being pregnant just the person but if I could’ve avoided it in total, I would
You are in control of your own situation while you are single and childless. Don't wait for him to get you pregnant on purpose so that you can't leave.
Things get WAY harder with children, even in good relationships.
her situation isn’t the same as yours 😂 it’s like you’re rubbing it in her face .. weird .. I see you do this on a lot of posts
Classic Narcissist. It will be painful and difficult to leave but you have to put yourself first before it becomes complicated.
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