It sounds like you're doing an incredible job as a mum, and there’s absolutely nothing wrong with you asking your partner for support/ expressing your needs. It’s unfortunate that people still have outdated views on baby care! 😌 Do you have support from family at all? It can really make a difference. It’s possible that baby might sense the tension too. Once baby’s basic needs are met, it might help for mum to take a moment for fresh air/ clarity. Sometimes gentle music or heartbeat sounds can be soothing for both baby (and maybe even you too). Just know that you are not alone- sending positive vibes 💖
So he’s a lazy dad? I’ll be real if my partner treated me this I don’t think I’d stay with him! He should help a lot more it’s sad really because us moms go through enough on a daily! I don’t mean this in a harsh way but maybe he’s gotten away with being lazy for too long you need to put your foot down and tell him some home truths about himself and then maybe he’ll start stepping up! you deserve better though ❤️