Partner doesn’t support

Partner rarely supports with kids and it sounds sad but I’ve just got used to it. But when I’m ill or they are I need him to step up more and it’s 50/50 if he will or not. Recently the baby has started waking around 1/2am she used to sleep through, she’s 8m but cutting her first 2 teeth. He instantly jumps to she’s hungry and that if I can’t settle her I’m letting her starve. Sometimes I feel like I feed her just to shut him up because she’ll drink an ounce and be done. It’s usually about an hour before she’s due or as I said that 1-2am. This has been an issue for years and I don’t know how to get him out of this cycle where whenever a baby cries it means they’re hungry. Tonight she’s cried and cried non stop and I asked for help and he ignored me so she cried while I made a bottle thinking maybe it would soothe her. Which it didn’t and just started a shouting match because I was “leaving her to cry” when really I’d never do that it goes against my nature and he just had better things to do than settle his child. Just needed a rant really. Now she’s just overtired and won’t settle at all!