Heartbroken 💔

I (23F), have a 2.5yr old and a 6m old. Found out that I was cheated on. I am unaware of when it occured but it happened. I am heartbroken. How do u deal with this kind of pain. I feel like my whole world just turned. I feel sick, I'm at a loss for words. Any advice. Where do I go from here
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My mother always tells me sometimes 2 separate homes are better than one unhappy one. If a man cannot value the woman who bought the life of his own flesh and blood into the world while sacrificing her own life he is not worth your time. I’m so sorry for everything you’ve been through , I’m sure you’re an amazing mother. Stay strong but also remember whether he’s the father of your child or not, no one is worth you tolerating disrespect

@Samina You said it better than I ever could have. Incognito follow her advice!

@Samina thank you ♡ This just sucks, I've been a SAHM since the birth of my 1st. I hardly ever went out because neither of us have family nearby. He went to school and worked. I just don't understand why. I'm incredibly heart broken. I want to leave but I'm not sure how when I have no income

Are you married? You can possibly seek payment from him, but I would start looking into programs(short-term school) until you decide to leave. Just don't let him know your next move. Try to look up as many resources as you can (job, home, car, child care)& get all of your ducks in a row. You shouldn't feel like you're stuck. I know that's why a lot of women, unfortunately, stay.

I know cheating is a horrible things that could happen to someone, specially a mom either 2 younge children. But if u can't afford living by yourself, just without forgiving him yet, try to stay in the relationship and study or find a job or save up money then leave, don't do any sudden decisions, he ruined your life when he cheated on you, if u leav ehim with n9 money and no job and no plan, u letting him ruin your life again. And it snot only ur feelings and ur life to consider, u have 2 little ones, whose lives depends on you, and in thei economy, take it from a single mom, it is Hard out here 😓i wish my ex cheated on me ,instead of abusing me and hurting me 😢.

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