Husband cheating
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He’s put you in such a terrible situation 😞 the choice is yours of course, but just know that it really is the worst of the worst who would cheat on his wife after she has just been through what she has in order to give birth to his baby. Like Victoria said above, know your worth. Will you be able to trust him again? Thinking of you, that is tough! ❤️
Yes, we all can be telling you to know your worth and to leave him but we also know it is not as easy and only you know if you can try to forgive. Ultimately the decision is yours and it will likely be a process rather than a decision right now, especially that you didn’t tell anyone. But for the love of everything that is holy go on a pill now (progesterone only if breastfeeding) while you are figuring things out! My mother got pregnant with my brother 8-9 weeks pp even though I was exclusively breastfed (yes, there is just 11 months difference between us - I was born in Jan and he in Dec of the same year). You want to take a decision for yourself and you do not want to make it more complicated by another pregnancy at which point most women would have stayed regardless of whether they would have otherwise.
I'm so sorry this has happened to you. I know situations aren't black and white but I personally could not stay in a relationship where this had happened particularly around the time of giving birth and bringing a beautiful new baby that you made together into the world. Where are his morals? I'd have to end it. You're worth so much more. He's put his own pleasure and someone else's above yours at one of the most important times in your life. Unforgivable in my eyes. Sending love and strength x
Know your worth, you’re worth more than being treated like that