It could be your partner. What counts as “normal” sperm count today, was classed as infertile 15-20 years ago. Fertility doesn’t just fall on our shoulders. Get you partner to clean up his act too (no offence meant).
We have been trying unsuccessfully for 17 months now 😢 The two weeks of hope then two weeks upset continuous cycle sucks!
We were in the same position. We got pregnant the first month trying with our first. It took us 10 months of trying and a miscarriage before we became successful again. We went to the doctors and had tests done. They couldn’t find anything wrong which for me made it more frustrating as there wasn’t a reason we were struggling. It is so deflating each month when you get hopeful and really want to extend your family. Sending you love and hope you become blessed soon x