How to deal with people staying over

Yes my son is terrible in public he is non verbal and austic and I get major anxiety because he is three and people will walk up and talk to him and hug him and he doesn't talk and hides and he doesn't do well with touch and she choices to stay with you guys knowing

Maybe this is selfish of me but I wouldn't even be worrying about him waking her up as you've got a baby and she chose to stay with you knowing that / had the choice to get somewhere else! I'd just focus on settling your baby as you normally would when he's up. The only thing that would make me anxious in this situation is if people were being noisy and going to wake the baby up then I'd be telling them to shush 😅 xx

to be honest in my opinion, don’t be too hard on yourself. they are coming in to your space, your routine and your lifestyle. if they choose to stay at your home they cannot be surprised that the little human they are visiting is making some fuss. they are family/friends and should understand. i know its easier said than done but stressing in the moment will only make you more anxious, take a breather and know you are doing what you can to keep your baby happy.🤍

I wouldn’t be worried in the slightest. She chose to stay in a house with a baby instead of getting a hotel.

@Alice exactly 🙂✨

I tell them you're welcome to stay obviously you know night wakings and early mornings are common for us

If she stays with you by choice instead of getting a hotel, do not stress about baby crying, she chose to stay with you. Second, I actually bought nose cancelling headphones for this reason and had to play music to keep calm- I felt like a bad mom at first, but it helps me keep my calm/patience and in turn actually makes me a better mom.

Not only did she choose to stay with you, if she is bothered she can change her mind and go to a hotel at any point during her stay. Stick to worrying about soothing your baby (not the adults in the home) and he will calm down more quickly than if you are distracted or trying to rush him through his discomfort.

I personally wouldn't worry about my baby waking guests up in my house, as they know the score when they come to stay with me!

@Alice agree 100% with this

She’s come to stay with you so I think you don’t need to worry about your baby making noise in your own house! We are actually living with my parents now since my baby was born 3 weeks ago and only once did she wake up my mum because she was screaming for hours. Otherwise every night they said they didn’t hear her. Remember you’re more in tune to your own baby’s cries. I lived with my sister for months when she had her baby and I only remember one night I got woken up

Babies cry, if she’s chosen to stay she should be aware that she’s likely going to be woken by a crying baby. Concentrate on yourself and baby and try to ignore anyone else.

Babies can only communicate by crying. The sister knows what she was getting herself into. The baby crying and waking her up should be the least of your worries. I’m sure she won’t mind as much as you think. Don’t let this be another thing added to your stress. She wanted to meet her niece/nephew she wasn’t going to stay with yall forever and wanted to get the whole experience

Yes we were roommates with my fiancés cousin who had people over and I had hella anxiety having two kids. She threw in my face the house was messy, when every night I’d be pregnant hands and knees cleaning so everything was reset. But yeah do you cus they can’t and they’re not parents so idec anymore

Every kid is different, if they say anything say mind your business, you came to our home so