Need advice😩

You might want to talk to your husband and tell him how you feel. It never hurts to communicate to him that his ex is bothering you and you don’t want to experience that.

Too many red flags you need to stop it before its too late. There would be no wedding with a man that makes me feel like crap nor would there be a wedding with a man that clearly has skeletons in his closet. I feel as if he purposely told her about y’all vacation so she can tagalong.he probably would sneak off with her honestly 💯🥴 She has a hold on him as you said and he just needs to go back to dealing with her💯and leave you out that whole mess

@Katrina I have spoken to him, he just doesn’t seem to get it

@Redss they speak so much it is so weird, I never contact my ex unless it’s important. Otherwise it can wait until the day he gets the kids. I know in my gut she’s holding something over him but he’ll never tell me.. just so frustrating and upsetting as I’ve been in a similar situation with my ex, he chose other women over me. Feels like history is repeating itself and I’m the one who’s heartbroken& stuck raising another child alone along with the fact this man’s walked in to my kids life and done this to them aswell. Just depressing 💔

Definitely depressing! Start planning a exit strategy soon . You deserve happiness and to be treated properly not this way at all . I hope everything works out best for you and the kids ✨

Give him an ultimatum and stick too it if you’ve already talked too him. There should be nothing important between them outside their kid and even then if he truly felt the way he expresses to you about her then there wouldn’t be any communication outside of anything involving their kid. Lay down the law now and if nothing changes then leave unless you’re going to continue to put yourself through that mess

you can’t change him or make him treat you better and if he does it’s temporary, you can test it out and talk to him to see for yourself but it seems you have alr and he keeps choosing her. You need to disconnect from him emotionally even for a little to enjoy the trip, you don’t care about him or her they can have eachother just focus on you and your kids and having fun, don’t let your life revolve around anyone but your kids or a husband that fixes any issues as soon as you express them to him.