Found an individual lash (like false lashes, but individuals) in my boyfriend's bed this morning and not sure how it could've gotten there. Could he have cheated?

Dont want to be that person but men will find the time! 😭

Eeeek- as someone who’s been cheated on before 😬 and I thought it impossible considering how much time we’d spend together- I’m inclined to agree with . In addition I would add: go with whatever your intuition is telling you. Don’t ignore it.

Almost like the time I found a pair of pants under my exs bed and he convinced me that they belonged to a girl his roommate had over

I agree with and - not to be that person but I was with my daughters dad almost religiously and if we wasn’t together we was constantly speaking - the only time we wasn’t was when he went to work - and happened to find the time to cheat 🙂🙂 and I really did wonder how he found the time but they do.

With that being said, it is possible that it has been transferred, but the likelihood of him bringing it in from outside in my opinion is extremely low - actual individual lashes won’t stick again they just get caught on cloth fibres but to then be in his bed? It’s a lot .. from someone who wore individuals, my partner would find them in his bed after I’ve slept there 😵‍💫 ..

There’s a possibility it’s just an accident but it would definitely ring alarm bells for me x

Girl! For me it was a rogue hair tie and body glitter on the sheets- he also hit me with the classic “must be my housemate’s” and claimed she was off to a disco-themed party. Please! GTFO. 😂🤣

You shouldn’t have told him straight away that you found the lash. I would take my time to investigate and observe.

I last wore individual eyelashes in Feb for my birthday and saw one in the bathroom randomly today. The adhesive glue used on them is very strong and sticks to things even when washed, I wouldn’t been too worried unless you NEVER wear individuals. But they can easily cling on to clothes no matter where you go. I don’t feel he’s cheating

I don't even know how to bring it up again. I figured if he hugged his son's mom on Easter? But they don't really hug. I want to not be naive, but I'm just so confused. Idk how to bring it up again. Hellppp 😭

I NEVER wear lashes. Have never even worn individuals

why are people always so quick to jump to cheating? feels like everyone’s paranoid in relationships now.

not saying he is or isn’t cheating but damn.

Did it occur to you that this woman may have left them there on purpose to alert you?

Also for a false lash to have stuck to his clothing and then to have come off in the bed - does he normally wear his outside clothes to bed?

Go with your gut instinct, it’s usually right.

I just would like to think he'd tell me the truth and because I can't piece together how the hell it could've happened, I'm choosing to look over it

Hmm! Ok I agree suspicious. Keep an eye out for more clues because if he has no sisters etc then now we need to turn into private detectives xx

I brought it up again and he got a little turned off. Saying he addressed it and he doesn't have a different answer for me

I think you should just give it up now,
If you’ve chosen to ignore it you need to do just that.. if he is up to something hopefully that would have been his wake up call, if not everything will come to light eventually - been there seen it unfold time again x