Would you feel annoyed/lied too?
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I'd only be annoyed about the fact he lied about what they were doing. By your response though I think he knew you'd say no if he told the truth, not that it makes it okay for him to lie x
Anything can be a holiday with the right attitude. I'm sure the kids had fun.
I'd be fine with her going but annoyed about the lie. He should have just been open and honest about it
I think he knew you'd say no if he told you the truth, but still not ok for him to lie about it. But as long as she had fun and was spending time with her dad I think it's all good
I'd be PISSED. Like literally anything can happen at those things. Recently there have been shooters at ELEMENTARY SCHOOLS AND SCHOOL GAMES.. I'd be more concerned over the safety issue. Like what if something happened to their father or them while being gone? And all you knew was where they were supposed to be but actually werent. And also, why would he lie about that shit? And also. I feel this on a holiday level because my husband picked an argument with me 2 days before Christmas and then wrapped all of the gifts. (plus he left and got more stuff without telling me) and wrapped those without me. When family came around nothing was labeled so I was looking completely stupid while my husband sat silent focused on his dog and not the family at all. It was our son's first Christmas. He knew I have a transition I like us to do and he did everything without me and didn't talk to me except to tell me to fuck off until our family came. My sister says later asked me wtf that was that happened..
I’d probably be a little annoyed not because i didn’t see her (since you already agreed to letting him have the day) but because he didn’t tell you what he was really doing. I would want to be informed about escalation what’s going on especially if i would have thought she would be out of town