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@Lauren no, i’m guessing kyle is in a similar situation
My ex cheated on me with a 15 year old n Is now 24 ahah
What a sicko. You should leave, seriously 17 is a child
@Zoe agree
He doesn’t get to decide how you react to his betrayal. Sounds like a loser. Break up if you can and don’t allow someone to treat you so badly ever again, the trust is gone. You will never forget about this and it will always rear its ugly head if you stay with him, stay amicable for baby. Good luck
I'm so sorry that happened to you. But that's a deal breaker. Not only for the cheating and the lying, which are enough on their own, but the age of the person he chose to do it with. If it's illegal where you live, I'd say report him with the police. That's super disturbing.
Not only is cheating absolutely disgusting but a 17 year old CHILD?!?? That’s pedophilia and Statutory rape. I would leave immediately and call the police. That’s just so unbelievably foul.
You should definitely report him and divorce as soon as possible
Pedophile
I’d report him for being a pedophile after I kick him out of my new apartment.
Me too
@SiSi the thing is he us head of household in the lease and i’m a subleaser.
Wait. He cheated on you with a minor, which that’s illegal? Like jail time illegal. and is now getting mad at you for “judging” him and his actions? Get yourself and that child as far away from that man as humanly possible because neither of you are safe.
Do you need him financially?
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@Ana Moore yes im pregnant again and we have a 2 year old. im trying to get a job
I mean no disrespect by what I am about to say and I hope you see that it’s coming from a place of looking out for your best interests, if he is cheating on you while you are pregnant he’s going to do it again, it’s not a one off. He cheated on you during a period of your life where you are your most vulnerable, growing a child is hard work on us woman physically and emotionally, you’ll never be this vulnerable again in your life and all he has done is show you that he can’t be trusted, what’s he going to do in the 6 week wait after you have your little one? Also his excuse is he slept with her because he had no where else to go? So he also used and took advantage of a 17 year old. Is this really the kind of “man” you want to build a life with? Bring kids up with?, on top of that he is turning it around on you for reacting to his actions when any woman pregnant or not would react, unless you have both agreed to an open relationship. This “man” sounds like a right catch.
That’s straight up pedophillia. There are women’s shelters a resources for you to use. His ass should be arrested.
@Jade i completely agree and i want a plan to escape
I would be calling women’s shelters or going and staying with family if the family option is possible even if it means a big move. This will end sooner or later and your best bet of it not affecting the children as much is to leave now so they aren’t more aware of it later. This is not a man that should be around children at all given what he did and him turning it on you (psychological/reactive abuse at its finest). He will teach the kids that’s how you treat women and it’s okay to have relations with children as adults (and vice versa, adults can be with children which can pose serious risk for them later once they get more freedom). And who knows that once the kids start bringing friends over that he won’t try to groom one of them— or one of his own kids! I’d be taking pics of his phone convo with her and marching down to the police so that he can explain to THEM that it’s not a big deal. I’m sure it’ll go over swimmingly for him but he needs serious, deep consequences.
@Lauren he didn’t cheat on you with a 15 year old. He raped a 15 year old. Children cannot consent to having sex. Keep your kids away from that man.
@Ally my child hasn’t seen him since he was 2 months old (when I found out) I was only 16 myself when I got with him and he was 21
That's a minor, you need to leave, and report him because that's illegal 😵💫 get to a woman's shelter. They'll give you resources to get you on your feet
It doesn’t matter if he is head of the household he won’t be head of anything when he’s in jail for technically raping a minor. This is disgraceful.
@Lauren bless you. I was speaking about this with a friend yesterday actually how girls at school would always have much older boyfriends. This was back in 2002 when I was at school. And that would be seen by everyone (15 yr old girls) as “cool”. Obviously as an adult you can see for what it is. Any grown man interested in teenager is a paedophile. I wish girls were more protected.
@Ally I acc made a tik tok on this the other day tryna spread awareness as I as a freshly 16 year old girl was mentally abused by a 21 year old and when I ended it because of him cheating he then committed over 11 crimes towards me within an hour this was just over 2 years ago now no contact and he hasn’t seen his son in 2 years either
You need to report him to the police as fast as you can. Take all the proof you have and report him and have him arrested. I wouldn’t even be able to look at someone like that without physically getting sick to my stomach.
This is crazy not only a cheater but while your pregnant with his child is stressful. Then also with a child crazyyy. I'm sorry this is happening to you. You deserve bettterr!!
His name isn’t Kyle is it