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If I pay bills and work full time , take care my kids , clean the home … Am I obligated to cook ??? I will serve my kids food what I know how to make and he don’t like what I cook. So he wants me to learn his culture food. But he doesn’t do nothing for me he wants me to slave for him. My so called husband works take my son to school and cooks that’s it. He makes me the problem like I don’t do everything I literally do everything for him except cook. He has cheated on me embarrassed me and financially drained me he want me to be this perfect wife I’m drained. How am I the problem ??
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I have a question. What is stopping you from leaving him? I mean, you already do everything on your own. He's clearly useless and seriously disrespectful.

@Rae couldn't agree more! You work already so can't you leave? He cheated! That's grounds for divorce right there, especially if he's being disrespectful.

The fact that you say you do everything. Conversation would have been closed. The fact that he cheated the relationship would have been over.

You’re not obligated to do anything you don’t want to do, esp when responsibilities are clearly unbalanced. He can go back to his mom if his definition of support is being waited on hand and foot.

Y’all are completely right I been wanting to leave I really think its his tactic of manipulation I’m scared to leave because I feel like he will plot to take the kids from me or make me stay in this state

You already do everything on your own, if he won’t help or realise that running a home & raising children takes two people then he’s not the one for you!! A real man will help regardless of the situation xxx

Keep a record of everything—what you do, what you spend, and any abuse—in case you need it legally. Plan your leave quietly. Please be careful, don't tell him you're leaving. You have to be strong and focused now, mama, you can do this.

You're not obligated to do anything!! He wants you tobe the perfect wife, when he hasn't been the perfect husband

ermmm why is this man even breathing👀 he’s a grown man he can cook for himself. my MIL makes comments that my partner should be coming home to a nice meal after work, i said who’s cooking for me when i finish work? they all want us to baby them like their mums do and make it an issue when we’re not willing to😂

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