I think my bf forgets he’s only the second guy I’ve been with

He always tries to go really hard. Especially from the back and I end up going flat or saying stop. He always stops but I feel bad because I know it does upset him that I can’t do what he wants or needs. I try so hard to stay up but before him I was only with one other guy and full disclosure he was a lot smaller than my bf and I only got on top of him so I really lack in experience. I thought it would change after I had a baby (get loose so I can take him) but it honestly feels worse. I feel like I might throw up and can’t breathe. Help? Or just words of encouragement? Idk what to do I feel like it’s ruining our relationship. I also feel like it definitely didn’t hurt this bad before I had a kid and I’m not even pp anymore my child is almost 2

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To add. He is older and has had many girls in his life before me so he has way more experience and knows what HE likes

Having kids doesn't make you loose. It seems you both could benefit from some sex education together 😉

He def should be making sure you’re enjoying the sex too. If it’s always about him ramming you to cum then that’s a strong NO. Yall should talk about it and see if yall can come to a common ground so that he learns to be patient with you and you’re able to learn him (and yourself) at your own pace. If he’s not willing it ain’t gone work because you’re always gonna be in pain. Easier said than done but I hope this helps mama!

@Nique I really enjoy it any other position. It’s only when he’s behind me that it hurts. He tries not to ask for it but that’s his favorite way so I do like to do it for him. We have talks about it. I think he just gets excited and forgets

Forgets that it hurts you? Not ok. It doesn’t matter if he likes it and has had other partners who liked it that way, you are not them and you don’t like it. Don’t feel bad about that! Also, he doesn’t “need” it from the back. You need to not get hurt during sex!

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