Prioritizing friend over me WWYD
My husband’s childhood friend moved to our city recently. The friend is a guy, is married and has a baby with his wife. My husband and him talk with each other every week. I have been okay with it because having a new born is hard and it helps to lean on someone. but it has gotten to a point now that he will drop anything and everything to go speak with this friend. He will shut the door or go on a walk to talk with his friend. I’m getting annoyed and can’t really imagine why. Maybe because My marriage has been a bit shaky lately or because I see that he can prioritize someone else’s needs over mine. I’m not even sure how I would bring this up to him or even what to say. I feel pathetic.
I would communicate with him. Maybe start it with if he needs someone to lean on you are there for him too. Make yourself open.