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Working out twice a day 6 days a week is too much . I have a 2 years old and we both work full time . My husband is runner but he is giving me time for workout instead of him . Because I gained lots of weight. I feel bad for him but at this phase my health should be priority. I am not sharing this for comparison but for reference what a good husband should do when partner is in need for break . Talk to your partner and set up a time for yourself 3 days workout or walk and tell him to manage those days . Do not expect him to say yes immediately but be stuck to your plan . Call for babysitter and spend his money on that if he is not giving time .
He will have about 45 minuet nap during the day It’s okay 🤣
I’ve tried to mention it to him but all I get is I’m moaning I’m going to mention him about a baby sitter or I’ve seen some gyms have childcare so I’ll ask if he can join one them if he needs to go gym this much x
I know for many of us it’s hard to put ourself first . We expect partners or families to understand our need as we understand their needs without words . But what if they are not understanding, should we keep waiting and expect one day to wake up and come to us saying from today onwards you can take break . This is not going to happen . Focus on your need . Our kids are learning from us , set them good example of self love . I really invested $70 per day for babysitter for a week to let my husband know how serious I am about my exercise classes .
What is your 15 month olds nap schedule like? Also with all due respect your husband is an asshole.