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Thank you Jackie. I feel like I’m being unreasonable as it makes me so angry 🤣 also probably hormones that don’t help x
Oh I absolutely felt the rage when family members were holding him; I generally would excuse myself to have a stretch / shower / make a drink as I knew it was important for them to have their time. I’d also take him back as soon as he was fussy etc so there was a boundary in place x
Asked heal baby care app and sharing in case it helps: "It's completely normal to feel overwhelmed and protective of your time and your baby, especially during such a significant transition in your life. First, it's important to set clear boundaries with your friends and neighbors about visits. You might consider politely communicating your current needs, such as needing more time to adjust or preferring smaller gatherings. Secondly, prioritize visits with those who genuinely support you and your family, as this can help you feel more comfortable and less pressured. It's okay to say no or to limit visits to what feels manageable for you. Many new parents experience similar feelings of frustration and the need for space; you're not alone in this. How do you feel about setting specific times for visits, or perhaps suggesting virtual catch-ups instead?"
If you don't feel like doing something you can just say politely "I ll let you know whenever we are available. For the moment we need some private time"
You don’t owe anyone any time with your baby. Do whatever feels right to you. People need to relax your baby is only 8 weeks they Should respect your space right now and offer help if anything.