Second time mum guilt

I'm the same. My little girl is 3 and my best friend. She doesn't seem bothered but I cry and worry about how she'll feel. I've just sounded out my husband and Mum/sister so I can make quality time for just me and her when baby comes. I've also made her so involved with everything, every step of the way. Hoping that'll help 🥰 here if you want to chat x

I totally understand how you feel. I am so worried my little boy who Is also 2 will feel left out and or less loved. I just have to keep telling myself that although it might take some adjusting that I know in time that he will absolutely love having a sibling as he loves being in the company of other children and it's a friend for him for life. But these last few weeks, knowing that there's not much time left just us is really hard x

I feel the same too our girl is 17 months and I keep feeling really sad she has no idea how much her life is going to change and she won’t be getting all our attention. I keep thinking about the lovely relationship her and her sister will have being so close in age x

I’ve felt a similar way, my son will be 3 in June and me and him have such a strong bond especially as for about a year it literally was just me and him. My son goes to nursery 2 and 1/2 days a week so what I’ve decided is that on a day where my partner is home I’ll have one on one time with my son even if that’s just half the day, a couple hours or a full day whilst he has the baby and I’ll get one on one time with the baby whilst he’s at nursery and of course still have days where we do things all together

Yep also living with the mum guilt too. I felt guilty as soon as I decided to try for a second haha! Me and my LG, now 3 have such a lovely bond and she’s a mummy’s girl I just feel so bad that I’m going to be too tired/busy to give her as much attention. She will be going preschool 4 days a week so on her day off I plan to make the day for her and take her places she will like. (The poor baby will juts have to get dragged around that day)