Need to vent

I need to vent I have 3 year old and 2 month old and I live in TX with my kids father, we from Louisiana and moved here March of 2024, I haven’t been working because I have no support here and he don’t put them in child care but he works. So we have been in a bad space for lil and I left to go stay by my mom in Louisiana because he said he hate me and ask me to leave so I did, while I was gone he had another woman in our home and I saw it on the door bell camera. So he convince me to come back because he wanted to see his kids. Then when I got back, he started kissing on me hugging on me then we had sex. The sex was great, but come to find out that him and the woman is still on the phone and he got mad when I confronted him about it & he say we’re not together and we’re not getting back together. You just here to get on your feet, You need to get a job and get on your feet. My thing is I could get on my feet in Louisiana and have support with my mom to keep my kids and they don’t have to go to daycare so my question is ladies would you stay and get on your feet or would you leave and go make a life for you and your kids in Louisiana? Even though I love it here in Texas I feel like if God want me to be here then when I get on my feet if he see that it’s a plan for me. I can always move back to Texas.

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I would leave and go make a life for you and the kids in Louisiana. Yes , you can always move back but start at Louisiana where you got support , I’ve been battling with this as whole but don’t let that man mess with your head babygirl it’s hard I’ve been there for almost 2 yrs with the father of my son. We’ve been on and off for 5 years because prior to my son it was 3 yrs and with my son is 2 extra years .

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He would literally have me all the way messed up. Like what? Yeah you have two choices. Stay and stack your bread while you don’t have to pay any rent at his house and find you a place in Texas or go back to Louisiana and you know build your money where you have support and like you said if God see fit, you know you can come back to Texas but honestly, I would choose the Louisiana option just because you have support you’re not gonna have any money if you’re paying for childcare for two children and honestly I just feel like that’s a lot on one person to be in a whole Nother state with no support and no money and no motion dealing with a man like that who obviously don’t care about your emotions. I’m def here if you need to talk love that’s crazy… he crazy lol

If you stay you need to cut all other ties with him other than him being the kids father. Stay if he will allow to to stay rent free and stack your money so you can eventually move out in your own but if it’s not like that then just go back home and be safer with your mom. He has made it clear where he stands with you. Sex or not, living with him or not he does not see you as his woman

@🌻Shaunna🌻 🤏🏾🤏🏾🤏🏾🤏🏾🤏🏾

@Samantha about to text you now!

@Shann thanks and will message you!

@🌻Shaunna🌻 no he want me to help with bills and if I was to stay it’s hard because my heart is still with him and then he wants to have sex, hug me and kiss on me and then turn around and do him then when I confront him it’s we not together.

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