@Bonny, he's never really given me that impression before. He was understanding when I said I wasn't in the mood. It's just the fact that he has yo-yoed this weekend. Pushing me away and then wanting sex, like no, I'm not ok with that.
Sometimes sex can be a good reset for my husband and me. We feel more connected and relaxed afterward and able to discuss sensitive topics. I would say that as long as it's a one-off thing and not a toxic pattern, then take the connection your husband is offering and build off of it afterward.
That would make me even more upset, personally. I need to feel connected to my husband before we have sex, otherwise I feel used and gross. The yo-yoing of him literally pushing you away and then trying to initiate sex seems so mixed up. He should try to repair with you first đź’•
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The idea that all men care about is sex is a stereotype for a reason. It doesn't make it right, it just makes it so... He's upset and lashing out about something. I hope you are able to talk things out with him soon.