Which was harder?
Due with my second in 4 weeks and reality is starting to hit.
I found the newborn stage easier than toddler stage with my first, so worried I won't have the same experience with my second!
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I found being pregnant with a toddler a lot harder than having a newborn and a toddler!
I’ve found 1-2 hard only where you can’t chill out like you did when you only had one. No occasional little day time nap when the baby fell asleep etc, I’m always so tired! The house is messy all the time and we just can’t keep on top of it with two which overwhelms me/us but I know it’s not forever so just trying to get over that. 8 months in now with having two and they really do love each other, and it’s gone super fast, even faster than the first time! 🥹 you’ll be fine lovely xx
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I found having 2 a different hard to having 1 So the first I struggled with the newborn and baby stage because I was just worrying about everything & it being such a shock/ change of routine going from 0-1. then the toddler stage is hard because they are just so busy Where as I’m not worried about every little thing with my second as a new born and it’s not a shock the change of routine as I’m in it and lived through it. Where as it’s difficult dealing with a toddler who doesn’t understand and a newborn. So just different hards, but I’d say 1-2 is a lot easier, as you know the hard phases will pass and you’ll miss the chaos 🤣 xxx