I used to only have one once every few times. But to me, that felt more like using my body to pleasure him. I wasn't satisfied at all. So, I talked to him about it. Now, I cum every time if I want to, and I'm so much more interested in our sex life. It's definitely made me think about others a whole lot less
I said yes but would have chosen mostly
9/10 times yes. There’s the rare few times that I don’t, but it’s very rare
I do now.. I didn't always, though. When I brought it up, he made a point to make sure I did one way or another. I <3 sex though, and my drive is higher than his. It made the biggest difference when I told him the best parts about what he did/does, and when I opened up about my favorite position, he opened up about his, too.
Most of the time, with my current partner. However must men in my experience are rubbish.
I mean. If I wanted to. Yes. But many times I’m just not interested in having an orgasm and am having sex because he wants to.