Should I feel bad??

Im 8 weeks PP and have just sorted out contraceptives to avoid another pregnancy so soon but I think it's upset my partner because his way of looking at it is "it will happen when it happens" Should I feel bad for going onto the pill anyway??
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Haha no, tell him to fuck off

Yeah easy for him to say when he’s not the one that would have to carry and birth another baby haha. No, you shouldn’t feel bad

No you shouldn’t feed bad. It’s your body and you know what you can handle. Your body also ideally needs some time to recover. He isn’t the one that has to go through all the pregnancy symptoms or carrying a baby while looking after a baby, he won’t be the one that’s tired and sore and feeling guilty because you’re exhausted but your baby is still getting up every few hours of the night and needs looking after during the day. Back to back pregnancies really do hit hard and even if you had a smooth first pregnancy, doesn’t mean the second will be the same. Coming from a mama who has 3 children and my oldest just turned 3 on Sunday 🤣😉

no. it’s your body!

No way girl ! If you do feel like it needs to be spoken on, I'd say I'm sorry if my choice to do that bothers you in anyway. It's the choice I feel is best for my body right now. You can address having a difference of opinion respectfully but don't give someone (even someone that important) the ability to sway you from what's right for you. Ever. Or the ability to make you feel guilty either for that matter

@Hannah thats what i say to him

Where do men actually find the audacity? Like really, I need some.

Why would you ever feel bad for doing WHAT IS BEST for you? 🤔 A man doesn't need to know every single thing that goes inside you or comes out😁

hahaha he’s right. it will happen when it happens. and you get to choose to make it not happen anytime soon 😂😂

It’s called Irish twins you don’t want that

No, your body. Your choice. It doesn't concern him, he's not taking it. If your concerned about getting pregnant again def get on it. Especially if you have a partner who doesn't use condoms or anything. I hate men who are "it will happen if it happens". Screw you, ain't your body, ain't your decision on birth control. 🤣

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