Selfish

Nope. He's being selfish. He's asking u to put ur body through changes, mood changes, possible complications. Not to mention the restrictions, you have to watch what u do and what u eat once u get pregnant. We as women give up so much to make sure our babies are born healthy and safe. He can wait a year. No one but him cares how old he is when he has a kid. And if that's something his peers criticize him for then he needs better friends. Sorry that was a long rant but the answer is no. He's selfish. You have the right to put urself 1st. And it's not like u said no to another baby you simply want to wait.

I think he’s being selfish. Unfortunately we can plan all we want but it won’t happen on our time. I had a lot of complications with my first pregnancy to the point that after 6 years I was still not ready to have another baby and my husband and his family convinced me. It was a high risk pregnancy as well ended up having to be induced 2 days after they sent me home with the baby because I had water in my lungs. After all this I love my baby but unfortunately resent my husband at times because I didn’t feel that I had the support I needed after agreeing to have another baby. Just make sure you listen to your body and your heart. It’s a-lot for our bodies and sometimes we don’t have the help or support we need from our loves ones.