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Sorry you’re going through this, such a shame he’s willing to leave you and his child in such circumstances. The advice above is great, defo prioritise contacting council and universal credit. Once you find work, even part time, you’ll be able to claim 15 free hours of nursery care and 85% of those costs given back to you through universal credit each month. I would tell council you’re homeless now… that you have nowhere to go with your baby. They are slow and at least by the time they find you somewhere it’s not two weeks from now when you’re actually homeless. Above all —— you have got this and although things are hard now it will get easier ❤️
I’m so sorry you’re going through this! I know it may not seem it right now but it sounds like you and your baby are going to be so much better off and happier away from him! It sounds like he has problems he needs to work though! I’d contact your family and go and stay with them if that’s an option, having support and comfort is so important for the both of you. I wish you all the best x
I would contact your local council housing team and declare yourself as homeless. They may have to put you up in temporary accommodation initially but they'll give you somewhere to stay. You can also look to claim universal credit as you won't be working, and they help contribute towards your rent too. My mum never worked when me and my sister were little and she managed. Unfortunately it can take time to find a nursery placement so you may not be able to work initially. I'd definitely explore the above two option asap and see what they can both do for you. I hope you're ok and that you and your little one are happy. Having a happy parent/parents is more important than staying in an unhappy relationship and your child seeing it. Message me if you need a chat x