Husband not turned on

Yeah that’s not fair attal. You’re his woman he’s meant to love you and find you attractive in all your forms, ESPECIALLY when you’re carrying his baby. I was absolutely huge with stretch marks all over me and my husband still told me everyday I’m the most beautiful woman he’s ever seen, this makes me so sad. You deserve better x

I could see how this has hurt you. Does he tell you you're beautiful? Is he good to you? I think it's normal for some men to go off having sex when their partner is pregnant, but it's not because they don't think that you are beautiful but they might think of the baby inside you when they get down to business and the thought of that doesn't turn them on. Have you spoken to him about how that made you feel, and if so, what was his response? Some men aren't good with words and explaining things, but I'm sure he still finds you attractive and beautiful

this is supposed to be the time where he finds you the most beautiful! you’re carrying his damn child. did him to say that to you when you’re austin going through a extremely vulnerable situation rn is crazy.

My boyfriend loved every inch of me pregnant and complimented me 24/7. When it came to sex, he did express how he felt uncomfortable because “little dude is there” and how he felt like he was hitting him or something. He felt a little weird and although I was a little sad, his feelings were valid and reasonable. Doesn’t mean he thought I was ugly or anything, just kind of awkward for some lol. He could push past it some days and others he couldn’t. I would honestly appreciate the honesty and maybe ask exactly why. You could maybe ask if a change in position would help as well because you would like to be taken care of instead of always pleasuring him. We did doggy a lot because then my bump couldn’t be seen.

Yeah I would stop pleasuring him. If he's going to say that to you that he can just use his hand...

I would be very much turned off by the way he's not turned on enough to have sex, but is somehow turned on enough to receive pleasure from you. sounds like he's selfish and just doesn't want to put in the work tbh

To be fair when I was pregnant my husband had no sex drive and was struggling to do the deed as much. He didn’t not find me attractive he just struggled however since having our baby his drive is even higher then before.