FTM and not sure how to go about things/ if this is a common thing.
Me and my boyfriend don’t live tg, however he comes over everyday to do my litter boxes, and I get so annoyed with him for literally doing nothing. I just feel like I’m starting to loose feelings, but I don’t want to say anything because I don’t want us to break up then he tries to take the baby. I’m not sure if this is just the hormones or not because this has happened prior to pregnancy as well but I kind of worked it out. I hate thinking like this/ feel bad, because he does so much for me. I’m just not sure what to do at this point.
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That’s totally normal and most likely related to hormones. I would still be open with him and let him know you’re not happy in the relationship and talk about what needs to change. When I was pregnant with my last baby I didn’t like my husband at all, I had feelings of regret for marring him and having a kid. deep down I knew it was irrational because he’s a wonderful man but I couldn’t change how I felt. I’ve loved raising our daughter together so far and I’m so grateful to have him as a husband now. This pregnancy hasn’t brought so many of those feelings but I still don’t feel very cuddly or romantic and sometimes I feel a little resentment but not as much as last time.
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Since your not married by law you have 100% custody of that baby and unless he has a way to prove that you are and unfit mother there isnt anything he can do about it, i dont suggest you keep the baby from him, hope this helps