Racism? in childcare

Hey mamas, I need to vent for a sec. My son’s nursery has been great overall, but something keeps happening that’s really bothering me. There’s another Black boy in his room (adorable but looks nothing like my son), but for some reason, the staff keeps mixing them up. I’ve literally seen the other child wearing my son’s clothes (which are clearly labelled with his initials, in my sons cubby also labelled with his name, in his backpack that ALSO has his name). Today they gave us photos to purchase… of the other child, labelled with my son’s name. They even uploaded them onto our parent portal. Now…. I work for the nurseries head office so this is just unbelievable for me. This isn’t a one-time slip-up. It’s happened multiple times now. I have handled it all previously with grace and respect. When the other boy was wearing my son’s clothes, I told his key person and they tried to take the clothes off his back and hand it to me. I respectfully said no, keep the clothes on him and have his parent wash and return it to me whenever they can. They still took it off the other boy and gave it me in that second. And while I get that mistakes happen, it’s frustrating and honestly concerning that two children who just so happen to be Black boys keep getting confused like this. Our kids deserve to be recognised as individuals, not mistaken for each other because of lazy assumptions. I’m bringing it up with the nursery, but I wanted to ask—has this happened to any of you? How did you handle it? It’s just disheartening and exhausting to feel like our children aren’t being seen. Sending love to anyone else who’s had to deal with this.