Am I being dramatic?
My husband is job searching at the moment so is shut in his office most of the day.. he’s been popping down occasionally to see me and our 1 year old and has been super loving and sweet when we see him. Despite this, he’s not been helping much with our baby, not helping with meals etc. He’ll help when I ask him but won’t be proactive with it (he used to be much better). I walked in on him today and he had a live cam up.. he quickly shut it down and looked really embarrassed. I watch porn so I don’t so much have an issue with him watching it but it’s reaaaaally pissed me off that he’s meant to be “working” and he’s prioritising watching this to spending time with his daughter. He’s great at weekends and spends all day with her. I don’t know what to say but I’m really angry and hurt and feel soooo frustrated by the whole thing.
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No, you aren't being dramatic that's fucked up. He lied to you to get out of helping with his family obligations
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Honestly my partner is the same with housework, will only do something when asked even when there’s stuff he knows needs doing and would really help me if he just did it. Feels like another chore asking him to. But yeah if he’s supposed to be working and he is looking at porn instead and not prioritising his family then I’d be majorly upset and concerned. Do you think he could have a porn addiction? Hence doing it in work hours or prioritising it? Because usually healthy relationship with porn doesn’t mean porn comes before everything else. Maybe have a talk with him at an appropriate time and say how you’re feeling, ask if he’s struggling with anything atm as also if people struggle with mental health they can turn to things like this, the same way some people do with alcohol or anything like that. As frustrating as it is, there must be a reason he’s doing what he is