My LG is 14 months and she wakes alot through the night. Can't remember when I had more then 3 hrs sleep in one stretch lol. But she been very clingy lately and screams and cries when u out her down. Not always but it is alot. We also still on 2 naps a day most days as she sleeps terrible at night. And she cat naps 30mins. X you definitely not failing
You absolutely aren't failing, it's so so tough. My girl is the same she's 14 months and she's worse for me than anyone else. Screams every time I put her down and regularly has trantrums over little things. Then she goes to grandma's and is a delight! Also still wakes a lot in the night, whether she has 1 or 2 naps a day makes no difference to that either. It's definitely a phase but I don't know when it will end. You're doing the best you can and it's OK to be upset and have a cry about it, it's exhausting and overwhelming. I hope you have some support and can get a break x