need to vent

my partner just told me he’s with me because we have a baby… idk what to do im just tired of playing pretend family at this point i can’t help but feel like i made the biggest mistake of my life. i’m embarrassed and i don’t want my baby to grow up with a broken family
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If that was the case for me I would find a way out. No reason to be In a relationship like that. You need to be happy

girl i fell you in in that exact position rn ill im going to do is pray

Your mental health & happiness is far more important than staying in an unhealthy & unhappy relationship. Don’t be scared to leave for that reason do what you gotta do for you & that baby. Leave if you must don’t allow him to manipulate you if those are his true feelings best believe he’ll look elsewhere & cheat, get out while you can

@incognito & @Roselin and whoever else may be going through this.... What you're going through is tough. But please take him seriously. He's telling you that he is not here/there for You. So I sincerely hope that he is a good Dad. Not because if he's a good Dad you should stay together, NOT AT ALL! Moreover, if he is a 'good' Dad, and you are doing the best that you can as a Mom providing nurture & care, then that baby will be LOVED regardless, and your home will not be broken. It just won't look like what you may have thought or wanted it to look like.... I wish you the best! ❤️‍🩹

As someone who grew up in a family where my parents should have separated, but stayed together "for the kids"......don't do that. The kid will know and they will model that behavior as they grow. You deserve to be in a happy, healthy relationship and your kid will be much happier in two happy homes than one unhappy one. And even if you think you can hide it, you can't- they will figure it out.

girl leave him its hot girl summer

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