Seeing in laws - tips please
Tips to slowly let in laws back into our lives. We were no contact but they apologized after our second baby was born and they want to meet him.
I don’t trust them, don’t like them, resent them, and don’t even like the thought of seeing them with my kids. But I know as a mom, I owe it to my kids to try to give them a relationship.
Please give me all your tips and help. It messes with my mental health!
Take it slow and let them know this is a journey, not a race. Outline your boundaries and stick to them. We're reconnecting with my mother in law and the plan is for my husband to meet with her for a while, then we'll both meet with her for a while, then if we're both comfortable, she can meet our daughter.