Has it always been that way? I know that my daughter turned 2 in feb & is just now got out of that phase & it started around 22m. I would feel so defeated some nights because I told myself I’d get up & do chores after bedtime, but never was able to lol & now I lay in bed w my AirPods in, watching YouTube videos & she’s out within 5 minutes. I hope you have all the easy put downs soon. 🫶🏼
You’re not alone! My son is 26m and sleep has always been a hard thing for him. As a newborn he needed a lot of deep pressure and rocking to fall asleep, then just nursing to sleep for the longest time. We weaned him at 19m because I’m pregnant and couldn’t handle it. Nights got SO much harder. Yes he finally stopped waking 5+ times a night but getting him to fall asleep is a hassle. After many months of working on it we are at the point where we do a bath (sometimes we skip but I think it helps), lotion pjs teeth, then we get in bed, sometimes if he’s super hyper dad will tussle him around a bit, but I put white noise on, turn the lights off, and lay next to him. I stopped holding him because it got too uncomfortable while pregnant but I’ll offer snuggles while laying next to him. It still takes anywhere from 45-1.5 hr to get him asleep. We co sleep too. I think this is just our normal & will be for awhile.