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@Mishy my daughter has grandparents but they have other responsibilities and my partner just took on a new job and started working 6am-9pm so I feel like it’ll be unfair for me to ask him for help and he’s very picky on who he wants to watch our toddler
You’ve lost your autonomy and it’s really rough to get used to it, if you ever do. Try finding mum groups or playgroups where other people get it and you can rant about it. Sometimes my husband will touch me but I’ve had two little people hanging off me all day and I just don’t even want to be touched. It’s very overstimulating. See if you can find a babysitter to have a couple hours to yourself every now and then as well. Ask around for recommendations or have a look online in your area - I’ve thought about doing this as well. Just to even do the groceries by myself. I also go to a gym with a creche where I don’t have to worry about being a mum whilst I’m working out.
Hi! Yes, totally understandable! I think having a good-fit therapist can definitely help, especially nowdays so many have the virtual (if you are busy and can’t quite leave the house) and in person (if you can and actually want to get out of the house for some freshair and perspectives) options. Best wishes! And coming to Peanut is definitely a good idea too : )
I totally get that you want to support him with his new job but equally he should be there to support you and the little one too. It is important to have a support system you can rely on. You know what they say. You can't pour from an empty cup ❤️
I think feeling overwhelmed is totally normal and valid. I appreciate your partner is against daycare but is he able to help out more in that case so you can take a moment to yourself? Do you have other family or friends that can step in when it gets too much? I think reaching out for help is a good idea.