Feeling pressured about my twins routine
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I give me little girl milk and then we cuddle on my bed until she falls asleep. It works for us. It's nobodies business apart from you and your partner on what you little ones routine is like. Tell them all to mind their own business.
I say you do what you want to do. Not everyone will have the same opinion or do the same things as you and that’s fine but it’s also not their right to say what you should be doing. You know your children best and what works best for them. So just take what they say with a pinch of salt ❤️
I know it’s very annoying though and you just think to yourself, why do they even need to comment it’s not their kids or their lives🤦🏻♀️. There will always be one or some! X
@Rachel literally like it's crazy I even said to my partner I don't care anymore I'm doing what works for me as I'm tired lol 😴
@Vicky that's where I'm at now, I tell everyone do you have twins no then I don't need the opinion lol 😆 it's always a good shut down method 🤣
@Sophie literally as I said to vicky I'm done with explaining things lol I have twins it's hard end of lol 😆
I have twins too! We sit in their room with them while they fall asleep. If we don’t, the one that falls asleep second screams and wakes up the one that’s fallen asleep first! We have an older singleton too, we didn’t stay in the room with him, but twins is so different! x
We give milk and cuddle then put her down. She would cry/scream if we just put her down alone and awake. She’s always been very cuddly and so are we so we don’t mind. There will be a time where she doesn’t want it and we’ll miss it so I don’t care about people’s opinions of it xxx
@Michelle it is so different with twins my boys are the same one will wake the other so it's never ending x
@Rhiannon we are the same very affectionate one of my boys ain't keen on cuddles unless he's tired but as I said I won't be having anymore so I want to embrace every bit as I know it won't last forever xx
Everyone will always have an opinion about how you do things but you need to definitely do things they way you want to/what works for you! I still cuddle my little girl off to sleep (and sometimes even the older one 4.5yr old) it works for us and they feel comforted and happy which for us is the best things for us. X
I don’t have twins but I still let my daughter fall asleep in our arms 🤷🏼♀️ . I don’t care what other people think. My daughter. My routine. She’s happy. Healthy. Sleeps well. So meh. Let people make noise cause that’s all it is… noise 😂. Those oh so perfect parents 🙄😂. You do you momma 🩷