Same time everyday same feeling

Since I’ve given birth to my daughter I get this massively overwhelming feeling that starts around 5/6pm every day. It’s like a massive cloud over my head. I get emotional, stressed, anxious. It causes me to think about things that don’t matter. It’s when the major mum guilt thoughts enter my head over my toddler. I just hate seeing the clock get closer to this time as it’s so routine. Every single day it’s the same and I’m not sure how to shift it. Has anyone else had this before ? How long did it take to go away ?
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Hey it’s completely normal they call it the nighttime scaries! It’s an awful type of anxiety to deal with at the time but definitely passes, I used to read my kindle to pass the time until it would reach 4/5am

Hi, it happened to me for about 2-3weeks, every day at the same time in the afternoon I would get waves of sadness and anxiety no matter what I was doing… it got better by itself before disappearing

https://www.parents.com/what-are-the-sunset-scaries-8732062 x

Almost everyone experiences this due to the hormone drop once the placenta is removed! It goes away after 2-3 weeks ❤️ I know right now it feels like it's lasting forever, but I promise it will feel like a distant memory soon

It's normal, it will pass. I used to cry at 6pm on the dot, I didn't know why but felt sooooo sad.

I had never heard of the sunset scaries and used to feel the same and it was awful. What helped me was thinking about why I felt so anxious and how I could fix that. So the basis of the anxiety (generally speaking) is that you don't know how your night will go and what will happen - when baby will wake etc. I used to remind myself that I COULD do it, I did it the night before and survived and I'll do it again. I'd have tasty snacks ready in bedside table in case I was awake with baby and a fun show to watch (I had MAFS Austraila hah). It lasted maybe 2 weeks and as time went on I realised I could handle anything the night threw my way. You can too Mama!

As everyone else has said, this is a real and common thing! Being outside before/when you get this feeling, usually around sunset, helps to prevent it or lessen it. I got in the habit of going for a walk with my babe around sunset for the first few months, and it does eventually subside!

I'm an introvert and don't enjoy doing out in the sun, so I did something a little different to cope. Everybody preaches about how your life will never be the same again after having kids, and I don't handle change well so it absolutely terrified me. I didn't want life to change, so I found a way to incorporate my "normal" into this "new life". I use soaps with the same smell as what I used during and before my pregnancy to help combat nostalgic depression, I play the same video games and watch the same shows/listen to the same music I was super into before having my son, I do my very best everyday to live the same life I had before while also incorporating my son's needs into it. Instead of changing my entire life to revolve around him, I simply added him to the life I've already established. As soon as I did, my depression disappeared immediately. I didn't have to lose my identity, I just got the chance to share my life with my new best friend 💚

Yes I suffered from this so badly. I also got DMER when breastfeeding. It made me feel really depressed and then quickly passed. You’re not alone x

Happened to me and whenever he cried I was physically shaking like I was cold but wasn’t. It passes. What helped me was doing crosswords

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