Partners mum and dad interfering in our life too much
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@Neena nope I’m 28 he’s 31 they don’t have a key but that will probably be the next thing. I’ve spoke to him today and said it’s too much I’ve walked out the flat as I can’t deal with them another day he’s always saying yes to them 😔
Coming round to yours 4/5 times a week is excessive. Do they live nearby? Is there any chance you could move in near future? What’s your relationship like with MIL? Do you have any kids? Do they work?
@Neena it’s too much 😭😔 they live about half hour drive away. Don’t like my MIL she’s passive aggressive & bitchy she has quit her job, she don’t have any friends so it’s constantly her at ours all the time because she’s bored and has nothing to do. We actually had a night out on our own Friday and because my parner missed some of her calls she called me saying is everything ok what’s happened etc. just want them to leave us alone 😢 It’s making me and my partner argue
My god this sounds overbearing! I'd be telling them myself, sod going through your partner as he clearly doesn't have the balls to deal with it!
My in-laws lived 3 hours away but started to use our house as their vacation home. They wanted to come down for 3-4 days 2-3 times a month. They never asked if it was a good weekend they would just tell us they were coming. They also were very overbearing, his dad would take the TV control turn on what he wanted to watch and tuck it under his leg. I was like wtf is happening?, this is MY HOUSE. After MANY conversations with my boyfriend/fiance/husband we set up firm boundaries about treating us like adults and asking before coming over. It took awhile to get him on the same page.
4/5 times a week is wild, you might have to start charging them for visits. You just might make a full months wage by June 😂😂😂😂 jk but yeah that’s a bit too much, I’d just say keep pushing for the space because as an only child they’re probably used to running his entire life for him. One day at a time xx
don’t answer the door
I’d be moving out until he’s talked to them and put an end to it
Hell no! That’s far too much, I’d be having serious chats with my partner about the boundaries he needs to implement with them and how badly it’s affecting you - sounds like they’re struggling to let go and understand he has his own family to prioritise!
Is your partner really young or something? Do they have a key to your place? Have you had a word and asked them not to come?