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I am going through something similar as well! I’m here if you need to talk
You need to find a hobby to do, a class/group to join, when kids are w the Dad and not with you. Every single one of my coparenting single gfs I have, has a hobby. (In a girl group of 5 I’m the only one still married they’re all single divorced) For one that’s poker, one goes photography group, hiking group, yoga, heels class, pole dance, boxing or she just spends it at the gym. Me, I dance salsa and bachata on Friday nights and every second Friday they join me for some drinks and a salsa class, can meet men there as well if not for anything serious, just to dance and flirt and get their confidence up. Look for something you wanna do, and go do it when the kids are away. It’ll keep you focused, busy, make friends, and have goals to attain for yourself that doesn’t involve the kids, that’s just for you.
It's hard at first, no lie. But one day you will look forward to having that break--AND you will still miss your kiddo, but you will be able to use that time to do things you can't typically do while kiddo is around. It's okay to accept that *AND* because we can feel conflicting emotions and it's okay. I miss kiddo AND I'm excited to spend that time doing "me" things.
Feel free to message me as well. Sending you love mama
Hey girl, I may not know exactly what you are going through but I am a good listener and a good friend feel free to message anytime, I’ve been looking for mom friends as well.