I sometimes give a couple finger size pieces and a few bite size so he has a mix!
My daughter is in the "let's stick it in my mouth in one go" phase, meaning atm everything has to be bitesized 🤣 She will legit force the whole sandwich triangle in otherwise 😅
I’m still doing bite sized for harder to chew foods and then slightly bigger for really soft/ easy to fall apart foods. She’s come on so well with eating without me changing anything as I was worried as well! But I think bite sized is just safer for some kids so don’t worry you’re not doing anything wrong for still doing bite sized x