I don’t want to hurt a feeling or lose someone
Hi, I need some quick advice.
I just started talking back to this guy again after a few years after he found me on Facebook. Rekindled and starting over. We be getting intimate every once in a while when we are both free (we both have 2 kids now). Every time we get intimate he keeps asking me if it good or not . I lie and say it’s good 😒and reassure him that it’s not always about sx because I like being around him and his energy is great. The sex is bad and his 🍆 is small. But he is worried about the sx. I want to tell him it’s not but it’s so important to him. I also tell him it’s not important to me since I’m getting older and just want companionship and long term relationships.
Extra note: before he came back into my life I was involved with guy who was bigger and knew my pleasure points so it’s a big difference now
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The family portion I’m not thinking about because I don’t want more kids. But you are right cause I like him but soon as we get intimate I think about somebody else.
But to him it’s important and I think I told him it wasn’t good I don’t know how to guide somebody with a little 🍆. Most guys I dealt with know what’s they’re doing and are way bigger
i think talk to him - teepee size is not something a man can control or have choice over. talk to him about how he can please you, try inviting things into the bedroom - be open and honest.
@quira I don’t really care about the size it’s his personality and energy is what’s drawing me near
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So your goal is companionship and a long term relationship. It sounds like you want to build a family with him. There are many ways to receive pleasure outside of 🍆. And the more you know your body the more you can gently guide him through it. I don’t think it would serve your goal to tell him it’s bad. I think focus on intimacy. Practice looking into each others eyes, talk dirty/sxy, deep massages…get as much fore play as you can. Also try not to compare. If you’re having sx with him focus only on him if you’re thinking about someone else or how you’re not enjoying it that’s all you’re going to receive.