As someone who has had sinus surgery and tubes put in my ears around 6 times you aren’t wrong I’d be livid I was miserable my first time getting tubes in my ears I can imagine you are stressed and anxious looking after your child. Especially since he’s out doing fuck all and not at something important. That’s odd of him. I would message him and let him know you want him to be with you. Idk if you communicated that but I definitely would. Did you let him know this before he went?
You are not wrong for being upset. It’s selfish of him to go out and party and leave you home to care for your son alone after surgery.
No. But if you want advice on how to reconcile the situation and solve marital issues, peanut is generally not the best place to get advice. Most of what I see is a lot of women bitter and angry towards their husbands who project their own feelings onto others and give rage filled answers that only foster animosity and division instead of actually good advice on how to remedy the issue knowing that humans are humans and make errors