Toddler preferring daddy
It’s finally happened my girl has finally decided she preferres Daddy at the moment, it used to have to me to put her to bed if I wasn’t working without fail or me read her books or anything. a lot of my days off keep falling on her nursery days and weekend when her dad isn’t working and she’s now telling me to go away a lot now. I thought I’d enjoy her being able to be put to bed by her dad but I’m not I’m not enjoying work at all at the moment and to come home and to have her not want me or cry makes me sad and feel my strong bond with her is broken for the time being
It will come back to you, we’ve been in dad stage for a few months, the last few weeks have started to let me do some things (before it was literally dad everything) I started to see it as a bit of a break after being so depended on for so long but I totally felt sad as well. Try and do fun things with her and also get your partner to champion you and talk about you lots, involving you in everything even if she just wants daddy. Oh and go for an evening out without feeling guilty when you leave!!