Would you want to know why someone stops messaging you?

It’s most likely not personal

I can only speak for myself but I know when life gets really crazy I have a hard time keeping up with people. It's nothing personal but at the end of the day it's all I can do to keep up with my immediate family let alone get on this app and message people back. I try to connect with people outside of the app if we make a great connection so they have an additional way to message me which helps me to remember to keep up with them.

If it’s someone I *thought* I had a real connection or friendship with then yes. But if they were something I wasn’t interested in then no.

I've had peanut glitch on me and not show me new message notifications.A week later i happened to click the folder and noticed someone messaged me from the week before. I doubt you did anything . Maybe they haven't been online. I know that life with 3 kids can get busy. Maybe try exchanging numbers ive found people are more willing to text

Nope. It’s probably not me but her, like she chickened out or got cold feet or has social anxiety as soon as I mention let’s meet 😂💁🏻‍♀️

Usually if you match and they haven’t responded it means they haven’t even been on the app for awhile or haven’t checked msgs for awhile. Many mums get bored of this app and forget about it not realising that people are waving to them lol. Sometimes I get a rel ply 3m later and she’s like “oh sorry haven’t been on this app for awhile” what I do then is ask for her SM, move the chat off the app and into FB/IG/snap, where she is more active.

Not at all, from the other side I’ve done this a couple times and it has absolutely nothing to do with the person. I don’t use the swiping feature in the first place just groups, so when people message I’ll sometimes try and strike up conversation. But my toddler is crazy and my baby doesn’t sleep and I’m on the go all the time - peanut is a way to decompress for me, and having to use ‘social energy’ isn’t relaxing to me. So I’ve just completely fallen off a conversation a couple of times

Hi

Nah not really. It's different if this person is a friend that I have met up with, but someone who I have just shared a few messages with, i wouldn't ask why. This has happend to me on here, but I wasn't too bothered really