Weird vibes or am I hormonal?

So there’s this lady that would talk to me while waiting to pick up our kids- she seemed nice. I had a baby and sent my husband to pick up my daughter while I stayed home and they seemed to get close and it weirded me out a bit but I thought whatever…. Then I went with my husband to pick up our kid and she completely ignored me and was walking in front of me with my husband and that amped up my bad feelings- my husband went back to work and so it was just me for months there and she seemed snarky with me and not really friendly but kind of phony with me- Then today we had a school assembly/event and my husband/daughter/ baby showed up a few minutes late- as soon as we got in she waved to us from the crowd and then moments later was quickly sitting by us- I looked at my baby for a moment and then bam- she was right in-between my husband and I…. Wtf… she moved my daughter so fast to the other side of my husband and was sitting in-between us….Am I crazy? This seems weird to me. She’s been divorced twice and living with a man she is always complaining about- I brought up odd feelings to my husband months ago and he basically said I was crazy- he kept saying we need to hang out with her and we need friends- we do need friends- but I’m seeing a snake not a friend.
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From what you've said, no way would I be ha ging about with her! Maybe she has a thing for your husband? Also, what do you mean she moved your baby? Did you say anything when she did that? Fuck that I'd be telling her no-one moves my baby!!

She moved YOUR CHILD? To sit next to YOUR HUSBAND? And HE said you're crazy? I'd freak out on my husband too if that happened. The way i would bring this entire situation up with him again and make it clear that that type of behavior is not okay by any standards

@Becky she moved my 6 year old daughter. She was sitting beside her daughter on the other side of my husband and she moved my daughter to be by hers - i looked over and she was there- it happened really fast that I think I just said “whoa” and she said she wanted the girls to sit beside each other.

@Erica I know — we’ve been on edge lately so I’m trying to tread lightly and not over react until I have solid facts 🥺

But if she moved your child to sit next to your husband.... id freak out.

And also we are definitely not hanging out- I do feel like she is trying to take my husband - my husband seems oblivious- not to be rude but I don’t think he has the energy to hide anything and would be sloppy about it if there was something- another reason I’m being quiet about it because I’m gathering evidence and as of now it’s just her that’s off.

Oh, I see I thought she moved your baby not your 6 year old, I wouldn't have a problem with this if I was friends with her, but if you get a weird vibe from her then I'd just try and stay away you don't need to make friends with someone you don't like

@Erica I am internally 🫣

Hmmmmm. I hate to judge or give opinions without having the full picture but going by your description she does sound like a snake. I’d find a friend elsewhere.

To be blunt she wants your husband that’s it!

Yeah she sounds weird to me, she should bring her attention to you not your husband. I don’t like snakey women like that. I think stay at a distance, be cordial, just hi and bye. You have an intuition stick with it. There’s many more friends out there who don’t give you this vibe.

The cheek of the woman, dear lord 😅. Nope, I'd have told her to shift her arse back to her own seat thanks!

It is weird that your husband doesn’t see what you have seen and wants to remain friends. This would absolutely cause me to have issues with him! There is no reason to have any contact with her. Do you think your husband has contact with her?

Girl run she sounds like a psycho 😭 and your husband really shouldn’t entertain any type of “friendship” with this woman

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