You say he does nothing for your son so I don’t understand why you would want to be with him if he’s a crap dad. Also major trust issues.
@Ana I live with my mom and he don’t live with me babe , he just spends the week here but he’s going back home tomorrow for Mother’s Day since he’s a huge grandmas boy.. I can’t move on and find a better person because then he gets in the way of it and says we’re gonna do court because he’s all up in my business
@Kelly yes I don’t trust him because he’s lied so much on my name and not only that but he’s made me look bad for him to look good with his grandma he’s a grandmas boy and she won’t correct him even if he’s in the wrong
@Kelly he don’t provided nothing for my kid but physically is around him and spends a little time with him but that’s bout it
That explains everything 🙃 all mommy/granny boys are the absolute worst… I had to deal with one of those dimwits myself and man is it draining.
Are yall like 18-20 years old you sound like kids. You can’t move on and find a better person because you’re choosing not to.
@Allexys I’ve tried babe , I can’t because this man always wants to know what the fuck im doing and who im with and if ive had intercourse with someone else . It ain’t easy when he’s always playing the victim but making me look bad .
@Ana no really babe , that shi is draining and is fucken annoying and just puts so much shit on me it’s like if im single I can’t be me or find me someone better because this man always wants to bring in court.
Everytime he does something to show/prove that he’s incompetent keep it as evidence incase he does take you to court. Also if he starts to become too much (as in getting aggressive) then try to get some sort or restraining order. If you can I’d suggest trying to set boundaries with him which good luck with that because he sound like he’s got a smooth ass brain.
@Ana yeah no it’s a fight …
Of course it is… swear those boys need a good whooping. All that you can do the. Is to beat him at his own game by pulling an uno reverse and giving him a taste of his own medicine.
@Ana like how though ?
So don’t talk to him unless it’s about the child. Literally ignore it.
Why not go to court so you don’t have to see or talk to him unless it’s about your kid.
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I know I'm going to sound really harsh, but frankly, both of you sound very immature and toxic for each other. And it's not fair to your child because he is going to grow up seeing all of this toxicity. You need to permanently end it with him, focus on doing everything you can to give your child the best life possible, and work on bettering yourself so you can be the amazing mother that your child deserves. And of course sue that a-hole for child support. You got this! I know you can do it. ❤️
@Allexys I’ve tried that and it came to the point that he’ll blow up my phone non stop and starts callin my mom
@Allexys he don’t wanna pay child support or anything
Honestly, I’d say just move on because that relationship sounds extremely toxic and not something anyone wants for their kid. Also, chances are he’s definitely cheating, even if he “forgave you” for when you cheated on him keep in mind men are equally as petty and hold grudges. Good luck and hope you find peace and a better partner.