We don’t have much quality time together as a couple so when baby goes to bed that’s out time to snuggle on the couch watching our series. Usually the baby calls me in and wants a feed at 1am and that’s when I go in feed and go to sleep also. Our alone time is out of the house w friends and hobbies.. in the house we spend it together. If I’m in bed for too long after putting baby to sleep or fallen asleep he always temps me back out “want a tea? We watching a series?” Etc. if I did what you guys do I would feel single, like roommates. But, whatever works for you 💁🏻♀️
We've always gone to bed the same time as baby, as soon as he's asleep at 9 we climb on bed and just watch tv for an hour then go to sleep