How common is true monogamy

We don't have time to talk to and have sex with each other, let alone anyone else. We're tired 😆

literally this. My mother in law had a full blown affair, when they were both married, when she had a 3 year old and a 1 year old. I’m *almost* in awe of her, how could she be bothered! 😂

Penguins are the only monogamous animals, if humans were monogamous there wouldn’t be cheating.

Given I AM monogamous and have never cheated but biologically and factually, that is the case.

I've been faithful to my husband our entire marriage however my mind does wonder 😏. I would never but sometimes monogamy is hard.

I cheated over 20 years ago (and it was emotional cheating not physical). It was a huge mistake and I’ve never done it again.