Are you in love or did you settle?

I want to know how many women are actually in love with their partners vs. how many settled to be with their partners for one reason or another. No judgement, genuinely curious!
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Fell hard 7 years ago and keep falling deeper every day 🥰 the loml

I initially thought I was settling because it felt a bit rushed at first back in 2020. But I am totally in love with my partner. He is the best husband and dad anyone could ask for. He does so much for me and our little family. Totally in love with this man! I really did get lucky. 🩵

Still in love if not more 19 years later

In love with my husband, 9 years together (4 years married)! I didn’t expect to fall in love and it was insane when I did, beautiful feeling

Very much in love! We knew this was it as soon as we met. Thankfully, our parents were super supportive from the start as they saw how compatible we are. It’s a second marriage for both of us, and we definitely got it right this time!

Married 13 years in June, very much in love. He still gives me butterflies when he looks at me but with the added benefit of one square inch of physical touch brings me the deepest calm. He's an amazing husband, father, friend and partner. Never settle!

Omg I accidentally pressed settled! Definitely not the case lol, we’ve been together for 8.5 years, married almost 5.

There are days I wanna pack up & leave, but most days, I’m still in love with him.

So in love and even more so every day 😍 we knew the moment we met

@Shazia I could write this myself.❤️🥰

I love my husband. He is everything I ever wanted even the qualities that annoy me. I couldn’t think of someone else to be with me for the rest of my life.

My hubs is my best friend... my biggest emotional support and the best dad to our kids ... we been through it over the course of 17 years... deaths .. illnesses ... financial struggles.. growth.. having to take custody of my nephew ... and me quitting my job to take care of the kids for a year... we have our ups and downs...and our moments of stress.. but there is just no one else I could imagine doing life with ... honestly it was through the really hard times... and the moments of almost giving up that we became our strongest bc the one thing we ALWAYS have in common is our ability to try and better whatever situation throws at us and to do so together with respect and communication... are there days I'd like to see his nose bleed... suuuurrree lol ... but I'd still be the one holding a towel to his face... relationships are tough.. but I believe the more tough you make it through the stronger you get.

I thought it was love, definitely settled 😩

In love 10 years later. I feel like we watched eachother grow up. Watching him shape in to an amazing dad, and husband, and hes as hot as ever. I got lucky/ blessed or however you want to call it

He’s more in love w me than I am w him. Lol. But I didn’t “settle” I mean he’s absolutely amazing and helps my mental and physical load heaps, I’d be completely lost without him.

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6 years together and I still blush when he smiles at me or randomly kisses my cheek. He is always asking why I stare at him but I just can’t get enough of his beautiful face. And he is an amazing father to my daughter and provides us with a stable comfortable life. I’m currently pregnant with his first (bio) daughter and I cannot wait to see his face when he falls in love with her. I am so thankful for the amazing man that he is🥰

I love my man. I can almost always tell when a woman settles. I’ve seen it way too many times and I don’t think people should settle.

After I met him I thought I was settling and then I realized his love languages are completely different from my love languages but he loves me the same..if anything loves me way more than I love him and I can proudly say that lol. Three years later we now have one child and another one on the way..definitely the love of my life!!

I love how many votes this thing got! I thought I was in love. I have love for my children's father but after a weird twist in fate had me reconnect with my ex, I realized he was actually the loml and I had let him go all those years ago. We're getting to know each other again now and it's made me the happiest I've been in over 10 years. He was always my home ❤️

@incognito thats diabolical

@𝒜𝓉𝒽𝑒𝓃𝒶 how can you tell?

My husband and I are soooooo in love with each other. I hope my kids find love like this.

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