Pregnant sex

How do pregnant mommas do it my husband will barely have sex with me since I got pregnant and I’m trying really hard not to be mad at him. Normally when I’m not pregnant we have sex a lot and I miss it my hormones are also heightened. With my first pregnancy we were apart the first few months then together the last 3 months so I didn’t feel it so much. It’s like everytime I want to he finds some kind of excuse and when we do something it’s fast like not good for either of us. Then I keep thinking what if he’s finishing himself off and if he is what is he looking at. Idk what to do I feel so conflicted and kinda hurt.
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I would talk to him about it. My husband loved that my hormones made me want it all the time 😅 but I know some men are afraid to have sex while their partner is pregnant so maybe that’s his problem?

@Katie we’ve kinds talked about it and that is the problem but it’s not going away so I don’t get the problem

Not sure how to exactly help you as my husband was never worried about it but maybe show some proof or things online that it’s perfectly fine and safe to have sex while pregnant

My husband doesn't use porn but has been off testosterone a bit (just started back up actually) so our sex life has really nose dived. We had sex all the time last pregnancy. I've talked to him about it but it's just making me feel awful. I know he isn't afraid, it's driving me nuts.

Some men don't find their parents sexy, when she is pregnant, I hope it's not this for you. But try to do something for him? He doesn't want that too? Do research on how to be sexy or talk to your husband for a pregnant wife. Or ask ChatGpt, it knows a lot 🤭

I would advise the absolute opposite if the above, if you put in lots of effort and don’t get any return you’re going to feel worse. Have an honest chat with him. Tell him you understand his libido isn’t what it was, but is there anything that excites him ? Is there anything that you’d like to do to get that connection ? Massage ? Naked bath ? Sometimes it isn’t sex we’re missing it’s the closeness. Alternatively maybe it is sex and he’s not feeling it, he’s still capable of making you feel beautiful and sexy with the things he says, or talking you through self play. So many options if you can get to the bottom of things x

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